Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best. ~Theodore Isaac Rubin
Here is an excerpt of an email Chris sent to our Saturday morning workout crew:
As far as the workouts themselves, I want to specifically address anyone who may have anxieties about performance, looking dumb, inexperience, no exercise knowledge, not being “in shape” yet, etc. I want you to throw that all out the window RIGHT NOW, because none of that matters. Just like with life and being truly known in community versus the façade we tend to show to the world, this is not about trying to prove how awesome (fit) you are to everyone else, how much you’ve got it all together, not looking foolish in front of everyone, how much of an “expert” you are, and so on. I don’t care about that and I don’t want any of you to care about that either.
Working out, getting in shape, whatever you want to call it, is about bettering yourself, pushing your limits, and celebrating successes, not comparing yourself to others, worrying about failure, or trying to look or be perfect during your routine (although healthy, fun, positive competition can be a good thing sometimes). In fact, I fully expect and want us to see each other in a less than perfect state (as we try to spiritually), including, but not limited to: excessive sweating, tears/shouts/grunts of pain, occasional blood, cursing, mud stains, labored breathing, and who knows, maybe even some vomiting (not that I’m actively TRYING to make anyone puke, but you never know…I have done it to myself before…). As long as you are giving it your all, pushing yourself, and striving to do better than you did last time, that’s all you should be concerned with and what we should be celebrating with one another. In short, I don’t care if you can’t even do a full pushup or a perfect box jump right now; keep at it, have confidence, and eventually you’ll get there!
When I think about all the things I want to accomplish fitness-wise, or when I see others that can do those things already, sometimes it’s easy to get discouraged. Instead of sitting back in awe of what they can do and I can’t, though, I remind myself that I just can’t do it RIGHT NOW, but I am on my way. My favorite fitness quote at the moment really sums it up: “I may not be there yet, but I’m closer than I was yesterday.” A little bit of hard work done over time with intensity and consistency will yield results. In fact, if anyone wants to post some of their current health/fitness goals they are working towards, feel free so we can encourage each other in that! Don’t feel like you have to, but I do want you to take the time to at least consider them internally. Be as specific as possible because progress breeds motivation, and if you don’t have a specific goal than there’s no measurable way to determine if you’re making progress (for example, “I want to lose 10 pounds” instead of “I’d like to lose some weight”).
Some of my current goals (but not all of them by any means) are to get my first muscle-up, be able to do a freestanding handstand, and to perfect the Olympic lifts to the point where I can use them in my workouts. One of the best ways to track and measure progress toward your goals is to write down your workout. Record the exercise or movement, weight, sets, reps, time, etc., so that way you have a basis of what to shoot for; if you did 30 presses with 25 pounds last time, then do 31 or more next time, or go up to 30 pounds and try to match the reps. If weight loss, weight gain, and appearance are priorities, then take pictures in your bathing suit and record your weight, inches, and clothing sizes every month. You don’t ever have to show anyone, just compare on your own how your appearance changes from one month’s picture to the next, how many inches you’ve lost/gained, and how your clothes fit. Don’t sweat day to day fluctuations or get too discouraged if you miss a workout or eat poorly! Just get right back on the horse and never let it be two days in a row, because two leads to three which leads to four and so on.